THE DEATH RITES
A three-month underworld initiation for the woman ready to bury her good girl alive.
If you’ve been dreaming of giving the world two middle fingers up and burning it all to the ground…
Welcome to your descent
“You can't fully imagine the transformation possible when you're standing on the edge, wondering if you should jump in.
But if you put your all into this,
you will honestly change your entire life.
It won't be easy, and it will be uncomfortable at times, but it will be 100% worth it, and Emmy is the best possible coach through it”
— Emma Topping
You know the exact drill. You are the fixer. The shaper. The helper.
The ultimate, unpaid holder of everyone else’s emotional baggage.
You’re constantly negotiating with yourself:
"If I just bite my tongue and appease my mother-in-law, maybe she’ll finally accept me." "If I just shrink my needs into this tiny, digestible little box, my partner won't be overwhelmed." “If I don’t show my spiritual side at work, maybe they’ll start taking me seriously”. Girl 🙄.
You’ve played the submissive, hyper-obedient role because, somewhere along the line, you were fed the lie that if you are just perfect enough, you will be safe from criticism. If you were small enough, they’d accept you. If you hide parts of yourself, thennnn you’re loveable.
But let’s be brutally honest, how is that working out for you 👀?
You can feel it screaming at you. That collective, ancestral rage bubbling so deep inside it feels like a physical chokehold on your throat. Your neck is stiff with the weight of all the words you swallowed to keep the peace. You are chronically obsessing over how you’re perceived, terrified to take up an inch of space, and running purely on the toxic fumes of resentment.
You’re snapping at the people you love because you've pushed yourself far past your breaking point.
You are a goddamn powerhouse hiding in plain sight.
Let’s get one thing straight:
This isn't about becoming loud, chaotic, or aggressive (unless you wanna be). This is about dropping into a lethal power that never has to be forced. It’s about becoming a deeply integrated, sovereign woman who doesn't need to ask for permission to exist. She is the fucking permission slip.
When we’re done, here is your new baseline:
Raw Confidence: You will walk into a room, and the energy will shift. No more agonising over every instinct, second-guessing your parenting choices, or crowdsourcing validation for your business decisions. You will know exactly who you are, and you will not apologise for that.
Unshakeable Fuck You Energy: When people project their insecurities and judgments onto you, you won't spiral into shame. It will literally roll off you like water off a duck's back. You will be in total control of your reactions: unbothered, untouchable, and profoundly out of reach for their drama. BYE DRIVER.
A Spine of Steel and Self-Trust: You will no longer outsource your intuition. You are the wise, grounded woman others instinctively listen to, holding a bone-deep knowing that you have your own back, even when shit hits the fan.
Magnetic, Witchy Freedom: That passion, that drive, that wildness for your life that you thought dried up years ago? It’s back. You will unapologetically express your spiritual side without discomfort and build a life that actually turns you on. Hex the patriarchy, make money bowls, spellwork is your new bestie. Collect your moon water and moon your nosey neighbours whilst you’re at it.
This is a space for good girls who are ready to turn bad in the best way 👀
Inside a High Proximity container for THREE MONTHS.
I bring transformations after just one session.
By month 3, you’ll be unrecognisable.
Let’s turn your good girl into that witch
THE RITES
Month One: The Rite of Dissolution
After month one, you will no longer be guessing who you are.
You will learn how your nervous system created the person you became to survive.
You will map your triggers and your inner protectors.
You will feel the difference between your truth and your performance.
Remember the first time you realised you were acting smaller than you are? You will not be able to unsee it again.
Month Two: The Rite of Grief
This is where the body finally lets go.
You will grieve the old identities, the lives you never got to live, the girl who carried everything.
You will learn how to let things die without turning to numbness or self-abandonment.
Think of every time you swallowed your voice to keep the peace. In this month, silence becomes release. Grief becomes holy.
Month Three: The Rite of Alchemy
In the ashes of what you buried lives the gold.
You will reclaim the parts of you that were shamed, mocked or silenced.
You will learn to work with your shadow, not against it.
You will transmute anger into power, longing into vision, pain into purpose.
It’s time to rise from the ashes.
This is a premium, selective space for women who are ready to put the work into practice. No spiritual bypassing. No high vibes, only fluff. Love and light dares not enter here 👀
“Emmy had posted a few times about TDR, but one day I did something for another person and got nothing back, so I hit the fuck it button and joined!
My self-trust, intuition, and fuck you energy are much higher than they were at the start and at an unbelievable level compared to when I first met Emmy about 3 years ago!”
- Karyn Donald, long time client
Three months together that make you unfuckwithable:
Inside THE DEATH RITES
My proven framework, The TDR Holy Trinity 🔺:
Shadow and Energy Work with Somatic Therapy.
A Spiritual yet highly grounded approach that utilises Jungian Psychology and Parts Work, supported by Holy Fire Reiki, Seichim and Quantum Healing (think past lives, soul retrieval and deities).A bespoke guided meditation personalised, written and recorded just for you
Mon-Fri Telegram support so we can work through things as they come up
A blend of 3 live calls per month and telegram activations giving space for connection, integration and metamorphosis 🦋
Astrology and Energy updates
Reading your Astrology and Human Design charts to support you in TDR and embody the real you
Who this is for :
You look like a boss on paper, but behind closed doors, your nervous system is fried. You are wildly successful, but you secretly feel like a fraud, just one minor inconvenience away from a complete meltdown because your internal world is so deeply dysregulated.
You are violently allergic to toxic love and light spirituality. You know damn well that deep, biological trauma and a hijacked nervous system cannot be cured by just vibing higher or holding a piece of quartz. You want the real, gritty, somatic work.
You are done running on cortisol and panic. You are ready to lead your business, your career, your relationships and your life from a profoundly grounded place of peace, rather than frantic, people-pleasing pressure.
You are resigning from your role as the fixer. You are done being the default dumping ground for everyone else's drama. You are ready to become fiercely boundary-drawn, deeply intuitive, and to treat your empathy as a powerful skill you choose to wield, not a weakness others can exploit.
Who this is absolutely NOT for:
You are looking for a saviour. If you want a passive, surface-level healing experience where someone else waves a magic wand and fixes you while you sit back, close this tab.
Your aesthetic is Live, Laugh, Love. BOKE. We are walking straight into the underworld to do real quantum healing and shadow work. This is initiation.
You refuse to look at your shadow. If you aren't willing to get your hands dirty, look at your recurring toxic patterns, and face the parts of yourself you’ve been hiding, this container will chew you up.
THE DEATH RITES is an application-only container
This is high-proximity, deep-tissue shadow work for the woman who is ready to dismantle the old version of herself completely.
We work 1:1 online with Telegram support.
Decisive women are always the ones who make the biggest changes.
£2000 PIF / or £666.66 Monthly 😈
This is for the woman ready to let her old identity die.
This is not casual coaching. This is a rebirth.
Apply below.
Here’s what previous clients have said about my containers:
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ANGIE SAID:
I definitely got what I wanted and more. My goal was to round up and integrate a lot of things that I had been trying to work on by myself, and going into UA with Emmy and the support of the whole group was more than what I needed to do this.
I liked everything but mostly the interaction with the other participants. It was just the right level of involvement from everyone; it made me feel supported and like we were all in a shared experience of growth and self-discovery.
Emmy you are an amazing practitioner, keep doing what you do, it makes such a difference in people’s lives.
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Frances Said:
Made such great progress towards my goals - it was really incredible to be able to implement things as the weeks went on and to report back - within my journey UA has allowed me to take a huge step in development - it helped me uncover stuff in a short space of time i never thought I could - It has allowed me to feel more confident in continuing to dig into this work for myself to break away from old habits/beliefs and become an optimal me. Super transformative experience.
So worthwhile - I think we are conditioned to not spend money on our wellbeing and when booking onto things like this, I think we can get a bit eeeek when you see the total price but at just under £50 per session - including the closing circle I think is such great value for money. How I frame it for myself to remind myself that this is so worthwhile - 1 trip to the cinema - minimum £30 - 1 meal out approx £50 - 1 pair of trainers approx £100-£150 - 1 bag of food shopping approx £30 - 1 alchoholic drink approx £6 = 8 drinks - 1 takeaway minimum £20 - 1 30min massage £40-60 - the value for how transformative this can be is fab!
I think as well the amount of time Emmy gives to us and the mental and spiritual energy she offers makes this such a good value for money.
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sf said:
Extremely well delivered with consistent support throughout. It exceeded my expectations. I didn’t want it to end!
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nicola said:
I definitely got what I needed from it. Maybe not always in the way I expected (the Purge was tough), but it was the right experience for me and I am so grateful I that I got to be a part of this.
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KAROLINA SAID:
The support you receive from both Emmy and the fellow women on the programme is what I enjoyed the most. I wouldn't have suspected that when I signed up but it turns out that the strangers can lift you up more than you imagine. And we all share different but similar stories, as if we were speaking the same language.
I definitely got what I wanted - a rebirth, an integration, a clearance of some karmic cycles and lifting the weight of things that have been dragging me down but it definitely came at a price. It is not for the light of heart, it was a difficult journey and I have nevr faced myself as much or felt as tired or burned out in my life. But I came out on the other end - different and I wouldn't have it any other way
100% it was by far the most difficult healing process I have done in my entire life and I will not want to go as deep anytime soon but I see some tangible benefits (better rest, better boundaries, new job?! - closer to my higher self, cutting out some toxic cycles) that would have not been possible without the participation in Underworld Alchemy.
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Karyn Said:
Where to begin? UA was a complete package of death and rebirth with a whole lot more thrown in! I went in with an open heart and mind to enter the depths of the temple of Anubis and felt transformed by what I saw and felt there, coming out the other side as a different person.
The somatic work included with the package helps to get a gauge on where your body is at and where it feels safe to go, this helped to allow the meditations to flow at a level you feel you can cope with, some days it’s more than others, but everyone experiences things differently.
Emmy is an excellent teacher and puts lots of time into what she is talking about in the section before the mediation, explaining the background to rituals and what might come up. The meditations themselves are just chefs kiss the right combination of background and foreground music, not too much talking and plenty time to allow the journey to unfold.
The month-long journey gave you time to work through anything that came up and time to do the amazing shadow work prompts to dig deeper and clear blockages in your head. There was always plenty of support from Emmy and the other participants in the discord chat and it was nice to share with people what was going on for you as some people had similar experiences.
I got more than I expected to from UA. I went in open-minded to see where the journey took me, and I saw a whole new way of thinking and being arise within me. I’ve removed blocks and pushed myself forward. I experienced life and death and rebirth during the meditations, and this allowed me to see where in my life I needed to make changes and change how I think for my own personal wellbeing.
Next time, charge more, Emmy!
Why me as your guide
I do not flinch in the dark. I do not rush your pain. I hold the torch while you meet yourself. I am your guide who’s been through the underworld more times than I can count.
I am a human biologist, a somatic therapist, a psychic, a priestess of the underworld.
I understand the body, the brain, the shadow and the soul, and I know how each of these ties together for your reclamation.
I consistently receive incredible testimonials, clients who work with me time and time again, and a soul-led desire to guide incredible women home to themselves. I work on my own shadows with a self-reflective practice and enter into mentorship myself to keep learning and growing.
Frequently Asked Questions
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The Death Rites is a deep transformational container where we work with the unconscious patterns running your life. That includes nervous system work, shadow integration, parts work, somatic processing, psychic insight, and energetic clearing.
This is not surface level coaching. We are going into the places most people avoid. The patterns that keep showing up in relationships, money, visibility, self sabotage, and identity.
If something in your life keeps repeating, it has roots. This work finds them and alchemises them.
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Because something has to die for you to become who you actually are.
Not literally of course. No scythes involved.
But the identities, coping strategies, beliefs, and protective parts that were built to survive earlier chapters of your life often cannot come with you into the next one.
The Death Rites is about consciously letting those identities end so something truer can emerge.
Most people try to manifest a new life while clinging to the old self. This work changes the self somatically, subconsciously and energetically.
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Most modalities focus on behaviour or mindset.
This work goes deeper into the nervous system, the unconscious, the body, and the psyche.
We work with:
• Somatic processing
• Shadow and parts work
• Energetic clearing
• Psychic and intuitive insight
• Pattern recognition across your lifeIt is both scientific and mystical. Because humans are both.
Clients often say they understand themselves on a completely different level after this work.
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This is for people who are done skimming the surface.
People who are successful, self aware, and intelligent but still notice the same patterns showing up in relationships, money, boundaries, visibility, or self expression.
You have likely already done a lot of inner work.
Who is this not for?
If you want quick fixes, surface level motivation, or someone to simply tell you positive affirmations, this will probably feel uncomfortable.
This work requires honesty and willingness to meet yourself deeply.
If you are ready for that, it is powerful.
This container is for the next layer.
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Because this is deep, personalised work.
You are not paying for information. Information is everywhere and most of it changes nothing.
You are investing in transformation that shifts how your nervous system, psyche, and identity operate.
When people resolve the patterns underneath their struggles, the ripple effects often impact relationships, money, confidence, creativity, and decision making for years.
It is not a quick hit of inspiration. It is real change.
Can I pay in instalments?
Yes. Payment plans are available so the investment can be spread out.
Transformation should stretch you, not put you into survival mode.
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Completely.
The work touches the unconscious, and parts of us are designed to keep things familiar even when familiar is uncomfortable.
Feeling a mix of excitement and fear is usually a sign you are approaching something important.
Fear does not always mean stop.
Sometimes it means growth is nearby.
How do I know if I am ready?
A good sign is that you are tired of circling the same issues.
You have tried thinking your way out of them and it has not fully worked.
You want real change, not another temporary insight.
If something in you reads about this work and goes quiet for a moment like “oh… that’s the thing”, you are probably ready.
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• Finally understanding why certain patterns keep repeating
• Increased nervous system capacity and emotional resilience
• Stronger boundaries and clearer self expression
• Feeling more grounded and less reactive
• Greater self trust and decision making
• Deep identity shiftsOften the biggest result is this: life starts feeling more like theirs again.
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That concern is normal.
What matters most is your willingness to show up honestly and engage with the process.
When someone is open, curious, and willing to meet themselves, the work tends to go exactly where it needs to.
The real question is not “will it work”.
The real question is whether you are ready to stop living the same chapter.
