A rite of passage for the woman who knows she cannot keep living a life built on other people’s expectations.



 A 3-month initiation into shadow, body, and rebirth:
turning your good girl into that witch

You are the structural integrity of
everyone else’s life.

You’re a Good Girl.
The eldest daughter or parentified child.
The reliable leader.

You have built a world on being capable, but inside, the architecture is cracking.

You are high-functioning, but you are also highly dysregulated, holding yourself to impossible standards.

You’ve done the therapy. You’ve read the books. You have a strong mindset that you use to gaslight yourself into working harder. You know exactly why you feel this way, yet you still can’t say no without a three-day guilt hangover.

Something has to die so you can finally live.

Welcome to THE DEATH RITES

Centuries of social conditioning and ancestral survival strategies have taught you that safety is found in being small, useful, and quiet.
Your body still believes that visibility is a threat, and setting boundaries could cost you dearly.

This is why you are exhausted:

  • You swallow your intuition and hide what you realllly want to say just to keep the peace. Over time, it turned into migraines, chronic tension or even autoimmune disease.

  • You are a master at managing other people’s emotions while your own needs are buried under a mountain of "shoulds."

  • You are a leader by day, but at night, you are googling for validation that you’re not a fraud. You want a sign from the universe when what you really need is internal authority and some solid self-trust.

  • You are so smart and capable, but collect certifications to squash your impostor syndrome. (It doesn’t).

  • Your health is on the back burner, and you’re basic body wash because you can’t relax enough for a bath with your lotions and potions.

  • You’re afraid to start crying because you suspect the rage and the sorrow are bottomless. You don’t have time for that.

This isn't just a mindset problem.
It’s a capacity problem.

Your Good Girl programming

Your good girl programming was bred into you. Stay small, avoid your intuition, appease your family, and you’ll be safe. Now, centuries on, you’re stuck with the weight of the wound, and your nervous system can’t distinguish between the threats our ancestors faced and modern uncomfortable experiences.

Here’s how THE DEATH RITES remedies this:

TDR is not a "healing journey" for the faint of heart. It is a deep, somatic, and biological stripping away of the survivor self, your good girl.

We work at the intersection of nervous system regulation, shadow integration, and ancestral deconditioning. We don't just talk about your patterns. We build your body's physical capacity to break them.

Blending the spiritual and the mundane

Here’s what you’ll actually learn to do

  • You’ll identify the patterns that keep you small, so you finally understand why you behave the way you do

  • You’ll build nervous system safety so you can show up authentically without feeling like you’re doing something wrong

  • You’ll stop fearing judgment, rejection or persecution because your body won’t collapse on you

  • You’ll increase your capacity, so your system becomes steady, grounded and unshakeable

  • You’ll learn shadow work that stops the spiral and starts the choosing

  • You’ll clear the energetic residue that’s kept you repeating the past

  • You’ll build a real connection with women who don’t flinch at your depth or your power

Month One: The Rite of Dissolution

After month one, you will no longer be guessing who you are.

  • You will learn how your nervous system created the person you became to survive.

  • You will map your triggers and your inner protectors.

  • You will feel the difference between your truth and your performance.

Remember the first time you realised you were acting smaller than you are? You will not be able to unsee it again.

Month Two: The Rite of Grief

This is where the body finally lets go.

  • You will grieve the old identities, the lives you never got to live, the girl who carried everything.

  • You will learn how to let things die without turning to numbness or self-abandonment.

Think of every time you swallowed your voice to keep the peace. In this month, silence becomes release. Grief becomes holy.

Month Three: The Rite of Alchemy

In the ashes of what you buried lives the gold.

  • You will reclaim the parts of you that were shamed, mocked or silenced.

  • You will learn to work with your shadow, not against it.

  • You will transmute anger into power, longing into vision, pain into purpose.

It’s time to rise from the ashes.

This is a premium, selective space for women who are ready to put the work into practice. No spiritual bypassing. No "high vibes only" fluff. Just the raw work of becoming whole.

Read some of my 300 testimonials down below or:

INVEST IN YOURSELF HERE

I was a good girl.

until I had a spiritual awakening that blasted my life apart, and I had to choose between what was expected of me and what was destined.

I chose the latter, and now I help women like you.

I went from a burnt-out teacher with awful coping mechanisms to being talked about for my spiritual pivot to owning a successful spiritual business. I did this by releasing my good-girl conditioning and healing my witch wound.

I wish I had someone to guide me through it with a spiritual, grounded approach. So here I am doing it for the future leaders.

How I hold you

  • Inside THE DEATH RITES

    • My proven framework, The TDR Holy Trinity 🔺: Shadow and Energy Work with Somatic Therapy. A Spiritual yet highly grounded approach that utilises Jungian Psychology and Internal Family Systems, supported by Holy Fire Reiki, Seichim and Quantum Healing (think past lives, soul retrieval and deities).

    • A blend of live calls and activations giving space for connection, integration and metamorphosis 🦋 Calls are fortnightly

    • Astrology and Energy updates

    • Reading your Astrology and Human Design charts to support you in TDR

    • A bespoke guided meditation personalised, written and recorded just for you

    • Mon-Fri Telegram support so we can work through things as they come up

    • Need more support? Add in COCOON - 2x Somatic Therapy sessions per month (bringing us to a call per week)

Is this for you?

This is for the woman who:

  • Is successful but feels like a fraud because she is so dysregulated.

  • Is tired of "love and light" spirituality that ignores the biological reality of trauma.

  • Wants to lead her business or career from a place of peace, not pressure.

  • Is ready to stop being the "fixer" and start being a Sovereign Woman - boundaried, intuitive, and chooses when to wield the skill of empathy

This is not for you if:

  • You want a passive "healing" experience where someone else fixes you.

  • You are looking for a "Live, Laugh, Love" vibe.

  • You are unwilling to look at the shadow.

Stop managing your symptoms.
Start your initiation.

Your Good Girl is tired. Let’s put her to rest and bring out your inner witch.

TAKE ME TO THE APPLICATION ALREADY
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THE DEATH RITES is an application only container

This is high-proximity, deep-tissue shadow work for the woman who is ready to dismantle the old version of herself completely. We work 1:1 online with Telegram support.

£1200 PIF / or £400 Monthly

THE DEATH RITES + COCOON

TDR plus Cocoon includes two Somatic Therapy sessions per month. With this option, we’ll have weekly calls to dive into the work and ground you in your body.

£1,600 PIF / or £533 Monthly

If you’re ready to commit to real change and become the woman of your dreams, we need to lay your good girl to rest.

Apply below.

The result of THE DEATH RITES isn’t a new you.

It is the real you, finally unburdened by the weight of everyone else’s expectations. It is strong self-trust supported with self-compassion and the freedom to express without restraint.

This is what your life looks like when you stop performing:

  • Good Sleep: You no longer wake up in a cold sweat reviewing your conversations or searching for external validation. You trust your decisions. You sleep because your body is no longer scanning for threats.

  • NO: You tell your boss you aren’t staying late. You tell your mother you aren't coming over. You tell your client that the project is out of scope. You say it with a neutral heart and a calm pulse. No internal shaking. No frantic apology.

  • Not fixing: You watch people you love make mistakes, and you don't rush in to save them. You have reclaimed the energy you used to spend managing their lives, and you’re finally using it to build your own.

  • You’re the Authority: You walk into a room or a Zoom call and don't shrink. You don't try to be "likeable." You are simply present. People feel your depth, and they respect it.

  • Spacious Success: You hold more money and more responsibility, but it doesn't feel heavy anymore. Your career or business grows when you stop being the bottleneck. You have the capacity to receive without the fear that it will all be taken away if you aren't "perfect."

  • Real Intimacy: You stop dating projects (eugh, been there) and start being seen by equals. You identify relationships that are reciprocal. You pull your tarot cards at the pub or speak your spiritual truth in the boardroom, and the fear of being seen like this is gone. The Witch Wound has closed over.

You are finally the owner of your time, your energy, and your sight.

Here’s what previous clients have said about my containers:

  • ANGIE SAID:

    I definitely got what I wanted and more. My goal was to round up and integrate a lot of things that I had been trying to work on by myself, and going into UA with Emmy and the support of the whole group was more than what I needed to do this.

    I liked everything but mostly the interaction with the other participants. It was just the right level of involvement from everyone; it made me feel supported and like we were all in a shared experience of growth and self-discovery.

    Emmy you are an amazing practitioner, keep doing what you do, it makes such a difference in people’s lives.

  • Frances Said:

    Made such great progress towards my goals - it was really incredible to be able to implement things as the weeks went on and to report back - within my journey UA has allowed me to take a huge step in development - it helped me uncover stuff in a short space of time i never thought I could - It has allowed me to feel more confident in continuing to dig into this work for myself to break away from old habits/beliefs and become an optimal me. Super transformative experience.

    So worthwhile - I think we are conditioned to not spend money on our wellbeing and when booking onto things like this, I think we can get a bit eeeek when you see the total price but at just under £50 per session - including the closing circle I think is such great value for money. How I frame it for myself to remind myself that this is so worthwhile - 1 trip to the cinema - minimum £30 - 1 meal out approx £50 - 1 pair of trainers approx £100-£150 - 1 bag of food shopping approx £30 - 1 alchoholic drink approx £6 = 8 drinks - 1 takeaway minimum £20 - 1 30min massage £40-60 - the value for how transformative this can be is fab!

    I think as well the amount of time Emmy gives to us and the mental and spiritual energy she offers makes this such a good value for money.

  • sf said:

    Extremely well delivered with consistent support throughout. It exceeded my expectations. I didn’t want it to end!

  • nicola said:

    I definitely got what I needed from it. Maybe not always in the way I expected (the Purge was tough), but it was the right experience for me and I am so grateful I that I got to be a part of this.


    I do feel it was worth the investment. The support, community, and the group gave me real value for the price.

  • KAROLINA SAID:

    The support you receive from both Emmy and the fellow women on the programme is what I enjoyed the most. I wouldn't have suspected that when I signed up but it turns out that the strangers can lift you up more than you imagine. And we all share different but similar stories, as if we were speaking the same language.

    I definitely got what I wanted - a rebirth, an integration, a clearance of some karmic cycles and lifting the weight of things that have been dragging me down but it definitely came at a price. It is not for the light of heart, it was a difficult journey and I have nevr faced myself as much or felt as tired or burned out in my life. But I came out on the other end - different and I wouldn't have it any other way

    100% it was by far the most difficult healing process I have done in my entire life and I will not want to go as deep anytime soon but I see some tangible benefits (better rest, better boundaries, new job?! - closer to my higher self, cutting out some toxic cycles) that would have not been possible without the participation in Underworld Alchemy.

  • Karyn Said:

    Where to begin? UA was a complete package of death and rebirth with a whole lot more thrown in! I went in with an open heart and mind to enter the depths of the temple of Anubis and felt transformed by what I saw and felt there, coming out the other side as a different person.

    The somatic work included with the package helps to get a gauge on where your body is at and where it feels safe to go, this helped to allow the meditations to flow at a level you feel you can cope with, some days it’s more than others, but everyone experiences things differently.

    Emmy is an excellent teacher and puts lots of time into what she is talking about in the section before the mediation, explaining the background to rituals and what might come up. The meditations themselves are just chefs kiss the right combination of background and foreground music, not too much talking and plenty time to allow the journey to unfold.

    The month-long journey gave you time to work through anything that came up and time to do the amazing shadow work prompts to dig deeper and clear blockages in your head. There was always plenty of support from Emmy and the other participants in the discord chat and it was nice to share with people what was going on for you as some people had similar experiences.

    I got more than I expected to from UA. I went in open-minded to see where the journey took me, and I saw a whole new way of thinking and being arise within me. I’ve removed blocks and pushed myself forward. I experienced life and death and rebirth during the meditations, and this allowed me to see where in my life I needed to make changes and change how I think for my own personal wellbeing.

    Next time, charge more, Emmy!

Why me as your guide


I do not flinch in the dark. I do not rush your pain. I hold the torch while you meet yourself. I am your guide who’s been through the underworld more times than I can count.

I am a human biologist, a somatic therapist, a psychic, a priestess of the underworld.
I understand the body, the brain, the shadow and the soul, and I know how each of these ties together for your reclamation.

I consistently receive incredible testimonials, clients who work with me time and time again, and a soul-led desire to guide incredible women home to themselves. I work on my own shadows with a self-reflective practice and enter into mentorship myself to keep learning and growing. I’m not your Guru, just a guide.

She runs through the marsh, feet pounding the earth, breath ragged against the night. Mud splashes up her legs as the sound of hooves draws closer. She is not a criminal. This is a witch hunt.

She remembers the women who came before her. The ones who knew the earth’s language, who healed with plants and prayer, who were hunted for their knowing.

In another time, incense curls through a temple. The priestess sways, her voice rising, calling down the old gods. The air hums with devotion and awe. She is revered, as we once were.

And somewhere else, a woman screams, clutching the sheets of her old life as she births the new. The midwife whispers ancient words and the veil between worlds thins. Birth and death dance in the same room, both portals to power.

These women are one.
The hunted. The holy. The birthing.
Each version of her learning the same truth in different lives.

That every ending is an initiation.
That to be reborn, something must first die.

This is The Death Rites.
A journey for the woman who knows she’s standing at the edge of her own becoming.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • The Death Rites is a deep transformational container where we work with the unconscious patterns running your life. That includes nervous system work, shadow integration, parts work, somatic processing, psychic insight, and energetic clearing.

    This is not surface level coaching. We are going into the places most people avoid. The patterns that keep showing up in relationships, money, visibility, self sabotage, and identity.

    If something in your life keeps repeating, it has roots. This work finds them and alchemises them.

  • Because something has to die for you to become who you actually are.

    Not literally of course. No scythes involved.

    But the identities, coping strategies, beliefs, and protective parts that were built to survive earlier chapters of your life often cannot come with you into the next one.

    The Death Rites is about consciously letting those identities end so something truer can emerge.

    Most people try to manifest a new life while clinging to the old self. This work changes the self somatically, subconsciously and energetically.

  • Most modalities focus on behaviour or mindset.

    This work goes deeper into the nervous system, the unconscious, the body, and the psyche.

    We work with:

    • Somatic processing
    • Shadow and parts work
    • Energetic clearing
    • Psychic and intuitive insight
    • Pattern recognition across your life

    It is both scientific and mystical. Because humans are both.

    Clients often say they understand themselves on a completely different level after this work.

  • This is for people who are done skimming the surface.

    People who are successful, self aware, and intelligent but still notice the same patterns showing up in relationships, money, boundaries, visibility, or self expression.

    You have likely already done a lot of inner work.

    Who is this not for?

    If you want quick fixes, surface level motivation, or someone to simply tell you positive affirmations, this will probably feel uncomfortable.

    This work requires honesty and willingness to meet yourself deeply.

    If you are ready for that, it is powerful.

    This container is for the next layer.

  • Because this is deep, personalised work.

    You are not paying for information. Information is everywhere and most of it changes nothing.

    You are investing in transformation that shifts how your nervous system, psyche, and identity operate.

    When people resolve the patterns underneath their struggles, the ripple effects often impact relationships, money, confidence, creativity, and decision making for years.

    It is not a quick hit of inspiration. It is real change.

    Can I pay in instalments?

    Yes. Payment plans are available so the investment can be spread out.

    Transformation should stretch you, not put you into survival mode.

  • Completely.

    The work touches the unconscious, and parts of us are designed to keep things familiar even when familiar is uncomfortable.

    Feeling a mix of excitement and fear is usually a sign you are approaching something important.

    Fear does not always mean stop.

    Sometimes it means growth is nearby.

    How do I know if I am ready?

    A good sign is that you are tired of circling the same issues.

    You have tried thinking your way out of them and it has not fully worked.

    You want real change, not another temporary insight.

    If something in you reads about this work and goes quiet for a moment like “oh… that’s the thing”, you are probably ready.

  • • Finally understanding why certain patterns keep repeating
    • Increased nervous system capacity and emotional resilience
    • Stronger boundaries and clearer self expression
    • Feeling more grounded and less reactive
    • Greater self trust and decision making
    • Deep identity shifts

    Often the biggest result is this: life starts feeling more like theirs again.

  • That concern is normal.

    What matters most is your willingness to show up honestly and engage with the process.

    When someone is open, curious, and willing to meet themselves, the work tends to go exactly where it needs to.

    The real question is not “will it work”.

    The real question is whether you are ready to stop living the same chapter.